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11 Ways Dads Can Help New Moms

May 10, 2016 by amushro

During those early days of having a new baby, I would pass my husband in the morning and at times, I think I startled him with my appearance. Newborns will do that to you: bags under your eyes, unwashed hair, the shirt you’re wearing right now, you wore it yesterday and maybe the day before, and all it takes is something as simple as you can’t find a working pen in your kitchen to send you into an exhausted crying fit. This is usually when my husband (who I’d shoot daggers at if he yawned or mentioned he was tired around me), would see this as an S.O.S. and ask “What can I do to help?” And it was the sweetest sound I had heard in days (other than my baby sleeping).

I know that man wanted to help, but maybe he really didn’t know how or maybe he was just a little scared of me (he had good reason). But I don’t think he was alone with being a new dad and not always knowing what to do to help me as a new mom.

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For instance Boudreaux’s Butt Paste recently surveyed more than 1,000 millennial parents and asked who usually has the dirty job of diaper changing and it looks like mom is doing the heavy lifting. A whopping 95% of women respondents said they do more of the diaper changing than their significant other. So when Dad keeps asking “What can I do to help?” why not just toss him a clean diaper, a few wipes, and Boudreaux’s Butt Paste?

But let’s not just stop with changing diapers, Dad. There are so many more ways you can help your partner and they don’t all involve poop. So for all those new dads and dads-to-be, here’s 11 ways you can really help new moms.

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  • When’s she’s feeding the baby, help her out. If she’s breastfeeding, make sure she has water nearby, her phone, and even a snack. If she’s bottle feeding, offer to be on bottle cleaning duty indefinitely.

 

  • Let her sleep—really sleep. If you’re taking a feeding at night so Mom can catch up on sleep, let her go into another room so that she won’t hear the baby. You’ll be amazed at how different a few hours of deep sleep will help her.

 

  • If you have other kids, offer to take them out and keep them busy, bring them home fed, pop them in the tub, and put them to bed. Let her relax and snuggle that new baby and feel zero mom guilt because her other kids are happy and entertained.

 

 

  • Take over diaper duty no matter what’s inside that diaper and no matter what time that diaper needs changed. And it would really help if you kept those dry heave sounds to a minimum, Mkay?

 

  • Tell her how amazing she is doing All. The. Time. She needs a cheerleader. Be her cheerleader.

 

  • Setup a date night for the two of you. Even if it’s just a night at home with dinner and movie, plan all the details and let her just relax and recharge and reconnect with you.

 

  • Don’t get angry if the house is a hot mess. Pick up a few extra chores around the house and help clean that hot mess.

 

  • Be a really good listener and don’t try to fix everything. She might just need to vent. Let her vent to you. Then offer her some cholate and maybe a foot rub. JUST a foot rub. Don’t suggest more. Seriously, just a foot rub.

 

  • Take care of her and check in to see if she is taking care of herself. Does she need to shower? Does she need a few minutes alone or a night out with her friends? Is she caring for herself? Now that’s she’s a mom, she will put herself last but help her by putting her needs first.

 

 

  • Plan for the times you’ll be late at work or if you’re traveling. Can you have her family come and stay if you’re out of town? What about ordering dinner if you’re late and making mealtime easier on her? She will appreciate your thoughtful gestures when your normal schedule changes.

 

 

*This post was sponsored by Boudreaux’s Butt Paste. The opinions are completely my own based on my experience*

Filed Under: Can You Hack Motherhood?, Family Tagged With: Amanda Mushro, Boudreaux’s Butt Paste, Butt Paste, dad helping mom, new dad, new dad tips

My Day At The White House with The First Lady and #LetsMove

April 1, 2016 by amushro

Is it possible to be speechless but have SO MUCH to say? I’ve started the first line of this post about a million times and deleted it a million times. So I’ll just start like this… I was invited to the White House and it was a surreal and beyond fantastic day that I will truly cherish forever. Phew, I’ve got that first line out of the way. Now I feel better. Settle in, friends because  it’s time for LOTS of pictures. But first, a little back story of how I got the invite to gallivant through the East Wing and the South Lawn.

A few weeks ago I received an email from SheKnows Media asking if  I would like to attend an event with the First Lady at the White House. First, I screamed and scared the crap out of my kids. Then I wondered if this was all a ruse to somehow gain access to my social security number. Finally I calmed myself down long enough to RSVP YES, YES, YES. Then I got into business mode and was all “What do you wear to the White House?” Priorities, people.

On the day of the Let’s Move Initiative event, I just kept saying over and over “Is this real life?” and I was a little weepy because I was so excited and so proud and so humbled, and you guys know I cry all the time.

So what do you do if you have a day at the White House? Well, let’s see….

You have coffee with Bill….

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You pose with Jackie

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You stash a few of these fancy paper towels from the bathroom in your bag. Hey, if they have their name on it, they WANT you to take it. It’s good PR, right?

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You send a video to your mom of all the White House China because she is so jealous you didn’t take her with you to the White House and you hope this video helps a little.

You tour the White House Kitchen Garden and strike a little pose because you feel fancy.

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You realize those killer heels were a bad choice for walking through the garden…

IMG_9396You somehow snag a front row seat and you say over and over “Be cool, Amanda. Be cool”

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Then you settle in because now it’s time to hear from the panel and the First Lady ,and you were one of the 150 influential bloggers invited to this event.

The panel consisted of  a powerhouse of ladies that were wicked smart, influential, and making real changes that will benefit our kids. After every woman spoke, I wanted to know more about their organizations and The First Lady’s Initiatives like:

  • The awesome  Fruits and Veggies (FnV) Campaign that is simply brilliant and so cool.
  • Farm to school initiative that you can bring to your kid’s school
  • Everykidinapark.gov that let’s kids go to national parks for free
  • The Healthy Lunchtime Challenge with a Kids’ State Dinner as the prize–seriously how cool.
  • The event was covered on the official Let’s Move site.

We first heard from Deb Eschmeyer, Executive director for Let’s Move!, and Senior Policy Advisor for Nutrition, who told us a bit of background on the Let’s Move! initiative. Did you know that ONE in every THREE children in the United States are considered obese? How scary is that statistic? In 2009, First Lady Michelle Obama planted the White House Kitchen Garden and in 2010 she launched Let’s Move! which is an initiative to help kids and families lead healthier and more active lives.

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Here’s Olympic Gymnast Dominique Dawes introducing Michelle Obama, White House Executive Chef Cristeta Comerford wiping up a kale salad, and Ryan Shadrick Wilson the ‎Chief Strategy Officer and General Counsel at Partnership for a Healthier America who introduced the super cool Fruits and Veggies (FnV) Campaign.

Then the First Lady Came out to speak, and let me just tell you, she was AMAZING. Smart, funny, and at times, I felt like she was talking RIGHT to me.

IMG_9375Mrs. Obama said that this was an initiative near and dear to her because when she was working full time, she found herself taking the kids to too many drive thrus and heating up too many dinners in the microwave. But after a doctor told her she needed to focus on her kids’ health and weight, she got down to work in her own house, and when he found herself in the White House, she knew creating Lets Move! was going to be where she spent her time as First Lady

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Because of the work of Let’s Move!

-1.6 million kids are now attending healthier daycare centers where fruits and vegetables have replaced cookies and juice.

-Over 10 million kids attend Let’s Move! Active schools where they strive to get 60 minutes of physical activity a day

-More than 30 million kids are eating healthier school breakfasts and lunches

-Nearly 80 million people, that’s 1 in 4 Americans, now live in a Let’s Move! city, town or county where kids can walk to school on new sidewalks, participate in a summer meal program, or join a local athletic league.

And as Mrs. Obama said, the 150 bloggers in the room had a social media reach of tens of millions and that the voices of Mommy Bloggers have power and can help to make changes that are important to our kids. And then I got weepy again, because come on, how amazing is that? The First Lady thinks blogs like mine are powerful messengers and that she is proud of us. Excuse me while I cry a little again.

After the event I basically floated all the way home and couldn’t wait to see my kids who were more impressed by the goodie bag that had a beach ball in it then hearing about my day at the White House. Oh well, someday they will get how amazing this day was for their Mamma.

Filed Under: Exciting News, Family, Uncategorized Tagged With: Amanda Mushro, Let's Move!, White House

My Today Show Post: The joke’s on you, kid: 11 family-friendly April Fools pranks

March 30, 2016 by amushro

If you’ve got a jokester in your house, it’s time to get prepared for April Fools Day. Over at the Today Show I’m sharing 11 family-friendly April Fools Pranks that will have everyone in your house giggling all day. Click right here to see the post!

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Filed Under: Can You Hack Motherhood?, Family Tagged With: Amanda Mushro, April Fools Day jokes, April Fools jokes for kids, family friendly april fools

7 Easy Hacks for Dying Eggs With Kids

March 22, 2016 by amushro

Grab those eggs (gently, very gently), round up the kids, and prepare to make a huge mess–maybe a few tears–but mostly fun, mostly. If you’re getting ready to dye eggs with your kiddos, don’t do a thing until you read my 7 Mom Hacks for dying Easter eggs over at TLC. Click right here to read the post!

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Filed Under: Can You Hack Motherhood?, Family Tagged With: Amanda Mushro, Easter Egg decorating with kids, egg dying hacks, mom hacks, tips for dying eggs with kids, TLC

5 Candy-Free Easter Baskets

March 20, 2016 by amushro

Listen, I love a good chocolate bunny, but I still have Halloween candy up in this house– and probably Easter candy from last year. So this year we are asking the Easter Bunny to change things up and I’ve got 5 non-candy basket ideas for kids of all ages. I’m sharing these adorable baskets on the Today Show. Bonus–No Easter Grass!! Click here to see the baskets.

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Filed Under: Can You Hack Motherhood?, Family Tagged With: Amanda Mushro, candy free easter egg baskets, Easter Eggs basket ideas, Non-candy Easter baskets, Today Show

Little Life Hacks for BIG Birthday Surprises

March 18, 2016 by amushro

I’m a firm believer that if your Mamma doesn’t make a HUGE fuss over your birthday, then who will? Now I’m not saying break the bank on every single birthday for over-the-top parties, gifts galore, and food better than what you had at your wedding, but here’s a few super special traditions that let your birthday boy or girl know you think they’re the bees’ knees and some easy Mom Hacks to take the stress out of throwing a birthday party.

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The Big Day Hacks

Decorate Their Door– More than any party or gift, my kids are beyond ecstatic when they wake up on their birthday to find their bedroom doors covered in balloons, crepe paper, and a birthday sign. Decorating the birthday boy or girl’s door while they sleep is inexpensive, super easy, and so worth the payoff when they wake up to see their surprise. Decorated doors are now expected in this house and this year my kids decorated my door for my birthday—seriously, how sweet is that?

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Cupcake Breakfast- Around here, if it’s someone’s birthday, you can bet there will be cupcakes for breakfast. Is it over the top, yes. Is a cupcake a good food choice for the morning, absolutely not. Is it a special treat your kids will love, you betcha. I have grand visions of sending cupcakes to my kids when they grow up and are off at college. Maybe it will be a reminder to call their Mom Every Single Day.

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Birthday Present Scavenger Hunt– Make their birthday morning an adventure by leaving clues so the birthday kiddo has to go on a scavenger hunt in your house to find their present. The first clue can be waiting on their decorated door.

Birthday Party Hacks

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Use What You’ve Got- If the party theme is also your child’s favorite toy, use those toys as part of the décor! Put those Octonauts in the punch bowl and let them go for a swim. Create a Hulk Smash cake with a Hulk action figure. Got a Minions crazed kiddo? Use their Minion figures to decorate the food table.

Pain Free Piñata– Confession: I loathe piñatas at parties. I know, I know, that’s a major kid party foul. Bring out a piñata and the kids get all Hunger Games and that paper candy holder usually isn’t the only fallen tribute. Save everyone a few black eyes and tears by filling your piñata with goodie bags rather than individual candy. When the piñata breaks, everyone grabs a bag and I can breathe a sigh of relief the piñata part is over.

Ice Cream Hack- Don’t get mobbed by ice cream hungry kids at your next party. Pre-scoop ice cream into cupcake liners, place them on a cookie sheet or metal baking tray and pop them in the freezer. When it’s time to serve cake and ice cream, you won’t be up to your elbows in the dessert.

Jazz Up The Balloons– Don’t spend a fortune on decor when you can grab bags of balloons from the Dollar Store and get a little crafty by:

  • Adding tiny pom poms to the balloons
  • Putting glow sticks inside for a glow-in-the-dark surprise
  • Attaching the balloon strings to golf tees and lining the yard or driveway for a grand entrance.

Give Store Bought Cakes a Facelift– Save yourself a lot of money by using these tricks to turn ordinary store bought cakes into extraordinary birthday treats

  • Make Glitter Sprinkles with ¼ cup sugar and 2 teaspoon of food coloring. Bake on a cookie sheet for 10 minutes on 350 degree and you will get Glitter Sprinkles! Yes, glitter sprinkles! Cover cakes, cupcakes, and cookies with this sparklely treat.
  • Make fun designs on the cake using a cookie cutter or a Play-Doh Cutter as a stencil. Lay the cutter on the cake and fill the inside with colorful sprinkles. So cute!
  • Add Jell-O to white frosting to change the flavor and add a rainbow of colors to your next cake
  • Make your own cake topper by finding free images online and printing them on cardstock. Cut the images out, attach tiny skewers, and place the skewers in the cake for a special 3-D look

Balloon Drop- Want to hear the sounds of sheer joy? Create a balloon drop by taping two a plastic table clothes together with painter’s tape (the kind that is sticky but not too sticky). Attach a few long strings on the end of the seam. Attach the table clothes to the ceiling or a ceiling fan and fill with balloons. When you are ready for the drop, one good pull on the strings will make it rain balloons. Yay balloons!

Birthdays should just be really, really, really fun. After all, you’re a mom and that means you probably won’t get to blow your own candles out ever again. And, I’m OK with that.

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This post originally ran on my other blog AmandaMushro.com

Filed Under: Can You Hack Motherhood?, Family Tagged With: Amanda Mushro, first birthday party ideas, kid's birthday party, mom hacks, party hacks

Come See My Video from Today Show Digital Team

March 7, 2016 by amushro

A year ago The Today Show launched their Parenting Team and for me, it has been life changing. LIFE CHANGING, friends! Because of the Parenting Team, my posts have been featured on Today.com, shared on their Facebook pages, and of course my Today Show appearances. So when I gush about the Parenting Team, it’s for a good reason.

Last week during my fourth appearance on the Today Show, I talked to the digital team about what the Parenting Team is all about and why parents and bloggers should join and they made this awesome video.

I have to warn you, this video makes me a little weepy because I’m just so proud and excite. Plus I’m just a big crybaby that gets weepy over everything. I’m serious when I say if there is an emotion to be had, I’m probably crying. Big old crybaby. My favorite part of this video is the clip of my first segment where I’m talking to Carson about chocolate and then I get all Oprah and sing “chocolate.” My BFF keeps saying she is going to make that her ringtone. Ridiculous

So happy birthday to the Parenting Team. I will eat cake all week in your honor.

Filed Under: Exciting News, Family Tagged With: Amanda Mushro, Today Show Parenting Team

Tips for Traveling With Toddlers

March 2, 2016 by amushro

Before having kids, my husband would spend a lot of time tripping over my suitcase. I like to say it’s because he was being too lazy to watch where he was going, but really I always had my bags packed because I wanted to be ready for my next trip. I loved having every weekend planned full of traveling to places near and far and taking off a few days off in between to do grown up things. You know, like work, pay some bills, and wash all those clothes in my suitcase. When my kids came along, I worried that I’d have to clip my wings and my days of travel would be over. Lucky for me, the bug to travel must be genetic.

While I’m not hitting the open road every single weekend, the kids and I still travel a lot, and since we started traveling with them from an early age, they are old pros at this point.

So if you have a spring break trip planned in the near future with your toddler, don’t fret, I’ve got lots of great mom approved tips for traveling with your toddler.

Click right here to be magically transported to Tips for Traveling With Toddlers.

 

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Filed Under: Family Tagged With: sippy lasso, tips to travel with kids, traveling with toddlers

Adorable and Easy Valentine Robot Snacks for Kids

February 4, 2016 by amushro

With Valentine’s Day right around the corner, you are probably like me and still searching for cute Valentine’s Day treats for your kids or for their class party. However, if you are also like me, you cannot spend hours slaving away in the kitchen or look at Pinterest ONE MORE TIME…kidding, I love Pinterest but I need to step away for the good of man kind.  So this year, walk away from the baked goods and make the sweet holiday easier on yourself with this adorable and easy Valentine Robot Snack for your kids or for their class party.

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I love these Valentine robots for a number of reasons:

  • They are so easy to make– just stack everything up and use your magical hot glue gun
  • If you are making these for a class treat, you can get all of the supplies at the Dollar Store so you won’t break the bank.
  • There are so many variations to these Valentine robots and you can personalize your robots based on the ages and needs of the children
  • I can’t say this enough– they are so stinking cute

Here’s what you need:

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  • Juice Box
  • Pudding Cup or applesauce cup
  • 2 Mini size boxes of candy, raisins, stickers, or temporary tattoos
  • Chocolate candy heart
  • Two tube shaped candies, Smarties, or mini licorice
  • Googly eyes
  • Permanent marker
  • Glue Gun

With just a little bit of glue, you get this handsome fella!

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When making this guy I found that a little bit of glue goes a long way. You can also use a heavier tape to assemble your robot. To put him all together too me less than a minute! So if you are making this for a class, you can start a little assembly line a few days before.

I hope you have a wonderful Valentine’s Day and that someone gets you something really sweet too!

 

Filed Under: Family Tagged With: easy kids treats, easy Valentine's day food for kids, Valentine Robot, valentine treats, valentine's day class party ideas

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